How can one be close with other?

Being close to anyone is really hard and tough jobs. For being close you need to try to win trust of person, and maintain that trust. Various things may come in your way depending upon the relationship that you have with the person whom you wanted to be close. The relationship that you have with the person is key factors that would determine the limit of closeness with the persons. We always wanted to be close with the person who is so special to us. The various things that you should take care for being close with your special persons are given below:

Trust:

Trust is the belief that one has with other. Trust is always earned over period of time. Earning trust only, would never help you to be close with special person rather you need to maintain it too. Trust would hold your relationship in difficult times. Nowadays, we couldn't trust anyone easily because today everywhere in the world there are lots of frauds, fake people. Selfish people are found all over the world. Good and honest people are rare in today’s world.  You need to be really very careful while trusting people. Trusting is the key factor to be close with special person.

Care:

Care is looking after someone attitude, handling them, supporting them when they are feeling low. If you wanted to be close with anyone than you need to take care of them, make them realize that you are always there for them. Whenever they need some people to talk about their stuff, share their pain specially you need to be always there for them. You need to be emotional support for your special person. You need to observe attitude of people, try to fulfill their exception from you. All you need to try to make them happy from your side, always. In Today’s world everyone wanted attention, so give your all attention and care to the person whom you wanted to be close.

Respect:

Respect is appreciating other attitude, behavior, habit. If you wanted to be close with anyone, then you must give respect. You must be good listener to your special friend. You need to let him give him thought on particular things, need to have due respect upon his thought. Sometimes, his thought and decision might be better than yours, you need to accept his thought and decision. You need to listen to everything what he/she has to say on particular things. This would make your special one feel always good, from your side.

Space:

Everyone needs some personal spaces, to their personal things, like mobile, purse. You should give some spaces to your special friend always,  this would not only make him feel good, would also make him feel that you trust him. Trying to get updates of every minutes of your special friend should be avoided; this would make him feel irritated, bored, from your side, so you need to give him some spaces if you want to be close with your special friends.

Communication:

Communication here means being in constant regular contact with your special friend. This would help you to be updated what he is doing now. Being in regular contact with your special friend would make him comfortable in sharing about their things with you. You would be able to know nature of person if you are in regular contact with anyone. And after knowing nature of person you could avoid the things that someone doesn't like and it would be helpful for being close with anyone.